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  1. In short:�

    1) you are aware of your malice in the moment – this is important: what you don't realize, you don't control,

    2) ask yourself about your goal in this situation: what do you want more, taking into account the consequences?

    The solution may be just to give out one or another degree of aggression, just in the appropriate form-for your goals.

    Well, to know when, under what circumstances you break the thread, it happens to everyone. And be vigilant: if such circumstances are appropriate, include a plan B: for example, remove yourself from contact geographically , simply leave until you come to a sane state, etc.

    This is really quite brief, but the gist of it. I've already described it in detail somewhere here, but I can't find it myself right now, and I don't want to do it again.

  2. try to look at yourself and the object of anger from the outside.

    If you are Orthodox, say the Jesus Prayer at least 2-3 times.

    Also remember – you're a pathetic or detailed sight when you're freaking out …

    on the hair dryer: filter the bazaar)))

    since you asked such a question, everything will work out for you. Don't rush to say the words at all. Try micro-pausing and you'll love it. Believe it.

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