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  1. anything is possible, but with varying degrees of probability. yes, and people are different.
    but the complete lack of communication is accompanied by serious mental consequences. read: running wild. and this is only the most logical thing.

    I moved into an empty, unfurnished apartment one summer. one. there was no Internet, smartphones, tablets. I borrowed my mother's old phone. I remember that during my isolation, my grandmother called. Oh, how glad I was to answer someone.

    I shouted songs, I even composed one song.

    I listened to the neighbors laugh.

    I followed people on the street.

    but books help best, you are alone, you are in silence, and now you are immersed in it. and then you get tired of this damn book, but you keep going, you get too full of books. it helps.

    and for the first time, the best thing is music. it completely discourages all cravings for communication.

    at some point, it turns out to completely forget about the existence of people as living objects. it goes without saying. people, for example, are pillars with rotating pupils and semi-known properties, they don't do anything to you, you don't do anything to them. and if you don't do anything, you can still do what you do when you don't do anything. Funny, isn't it?�

    I was tired and lay down on the warm concrete outside the curb, but I felt someone's eyes on me. The father of two twin girls was watching. One of them was pointing at me. I looked at my parents , and they looked away. I sat up and stared at the book on top of me. It seems to have been Utopia 14. Then I realized that hide-and-seek doesn't make sense, because I still don't read, why these stupid boundaries of behavior, for whom? So I started looking at the twins. With ponytails in different directions, identical dresses, but different behavior: one was more active than the other. And it's so uncomfortable to wear a ponytail on one side.

    The most difficult thing is not to depend on communication when there are people around. They're so damn interesting, the arms and legs are just like yours. The faces are so different and the same at the same time. simultaneously people and simultaneously the environment. meaninglessly moving mass of protein bodies. it is very difficult to get rid of this contradictory attitude.

    you know what's interesting? diaries are also a kind of communication. The paradox is that diaries, even the most secret ones, are written in order for someone to read them. Even if you burn them.�

    but without communication, you run wild. getting rid of the borders I was talking about. trees with pupils, inconsistencies – it is socialization, it is this gregariousness that has made a person a person. speech. thinking about how others will think.

    in general, there is a hikikomori-a phenomenon of developed countries. I will not describe it, most often it is profanity.�

    you can conduct experiments. there is nothing terrible in them, it is much more fun to look at your past throwing from the future.

    but know the gist of it:To get rid of society, you need society to get rid of you. deliverance must be mutual – that's the joke. and one more joke: communication, social ties are necessary, they entwine our entire lives, and if you cut them all off, if you are voluntarily thrown out, it will be oh, how difficult it will be to restore them again. especially if you're already wild.
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  2. “Nietzsche – So spoke Zarathustra.” Try reading this – fill it out in the same time, and I'm sure you'll find the answer to your question there. Perhaps I will now be flooded with criticism, but I believe that a person is able to refuse obsessive communication. And keep communications only on formal topics. You don't need more than that, and you'll come to that in time, because you've already started thinking that way. If communication is a burden to you – save yourself from the burden, there is nothing wrong with it.

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