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  1. I like the point of view that self-esteem is not overestimated or underestimated at all, only adequate or inadequate.

    Thus, if a person shows signs of overestimated self-esteem, then either they are not sure of it and ask for confirmation, or this is a red herring to distract attention from the problem area or even devalue it (for such an outstanding person as me, this is not a flaw, but a slight oddity).

    All of these emotional games are easy to read and can be uncomfortable.

    By the way, visually low self-esteem also has a downside, as it is associated with exaggerating the scale and significance of your problem. Not “I can't get into a relationship,” but “I'm a freak that I've never seen before.”

    People with high but adequate self-esteem may be disliked for not wanting to build contacts or having their own priorities that are not related to the priorities of the group, or simply out of envy. Also, many liuli do not distinguish well between self-confidence and contemptuous attitude towards others.�

    Well, in general, someone can dislike anyone for anything.:)

  2. Because it's easier to communicate with people who notice the people around you, it's easier to make a person like you if you compliment them and notice their strengths, and don't reduce any conversation to yourself. And as psychology shows, people always judge everything and everyone by themselves, which means they compare their own and other people's shortcomings, so a person who is quite simple in communication, showing the interlocutor that he does not intend to arrange competitions in merits, that he is just as mortal as anyone else, enjoys much more sympathy than arrogant narcissists. And, believe me, people who are calm, who notice the qualities of others, have much more topics to discuss than people who are fixated on their own physiognomy.

    Also, by their behavior, arrogant creatures put pressure on people, openly and with all their appearance showing that he is much better than anyone, and even more so the person to whom he demonstrates all this. Who's going to like this?

    And yet, perhaps, this dislike for narcissistic comrades comes from the fact that you are complex in something. Because, as a rule, people of such a circle are most often in the center of attention, and society is used to believing that since there is a lot of talk about a person, no matter bad or good, but they are conversations, then the person is worth something. Consequently, many who would like to be in the place of this parrot, begin to look contemptuously, and let out indignant remarks in his address, contributing to an increase in his popularity.

    In general, I will say this, do not pay attention to such people, maybe they just have nothing to offer the world, except for their artificially inflated Ego, so you can only feel sorry for them. Better develop your mental and emotional intelligence and become free from social constraints;)

  3. Surprisingly, many people want to increase their self-esteem and at the same time dislike those who have it.�

    I have several versions. One of them is that the post-Soviet space has not yet learned to accept the success of others. All the more reason to enjoy them. The opposite happens. �All those who go beyond the average, conditional norm – �devalue, try to belittle. Nefig stand out. The image is uneven.

    So it happens (this is the second version) that self-esteem is regulated not at the expense of their internal resources and reliance on others, but precisely at the expense of belittling, negative evaluation of others. Such is the struggle at the lower level.�

    And yet, if my self-esteem is not all right, then next to others who have it higher, I will feel bad. Even a nonentity. Of course, such people want to beat on the fingers, so as not to climb.

    Low, medium, high, high – who measures self-esteem? The answer is in the word itself. I myself. Therefore, having an inflated degree, I risk getting into a mess, inadequately assessing my strength and dignity. But this is my sorrow.

  4. Because overestimated self-esteem implies a groundless underestimation of the merits of others in comparison with the real qualities of the person who overestimates them. This, in turn, painfully affects the self-esteem of these very people around them and causes a corresponding response.

  5. Consider them proud : -))))

    “Dislike” people with any level of self-esteem – do not bother about this: -))))))

    High self-esteem is better than low self-esteem

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