This is when something inconsistent (unexpected, illogical) has happened in the past. For example, a father abandoned the family in which his daughter remained. Abandoned, she does not understand why this happened (and the human brain usually processes incoming information and looks for addiction in it, for example, I ate this unfamiliar berry, got poisoned, yeah, I won't do it again; and children take everything personally, if they were abandoned, they did something wrong). My daughter has grown up. And to find the answer, the reason why her father (man) left her, she finds men who look like her father and begins to try to keep them. And she was taught to communicate with men by her mother, from whom such a man left. Therefore, everything ends up basically the same as for the mother and the daughter. And gestalt is a fixation on some life event. Unconscious. Painful. Consciousness hides this event, to realize it is to close the gestalt, to find the answer, to get out of the vicious circle. Often occurs through severe pain, but brings great relief.
This is when something inconsistent (unexpected, illogical) has happened in the past. For example, a father abandoned the family in which his daughter remained. Abandoned, she does not understand why this happened (and the human brain usually processes incoming information and looks for addiction in it, for example, I ate this unfamiliar berry, got poisoned, yeah, I won't do it again; and children take everything personally, if they were abandoned, they did something wrong). My daughter has grown up. And to find the answer, the reason why her father (man) left her, she finds men who look like her father and begins to try to keep them. And she was taught to communicate with men by her mother, from whom such a man left. Therefore, everything ends up basically the same as for the mother and the daughter. And gestalt is a fixation on some life event. Unconscious. Painful. Consciousness hides this event, to realize it is to close the gestalt, to find the answer, to get out of the vicious circle. Often occurs through severe pain, but brings great relief.