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With my parameters of 175 cm/63 kg, I don't really like it, because I don't feel comfortable, it seems to me that the guy is hard and uncomfortable, because I'm not particularly light, let's say. Probably, I got such feelings after a tall, but puny guy persuaded me to “go to the handles” and after three seconds of holding me, my whole body began to shake. I must give him his due, he behaved with dignity and did not show it: D �
But if the guy is tall and his muscle mass is not in doubt, then I'm happy. Sometimes I ask my dad to take me in his arms to make me feel like a princess. Although it's still more comfortable on the back.
I like it. But with one caveat: if you are carrying a loved one in your arms. Then there is a sense of security from the world. In my opinion, this is the moment of intimacy when a girl feels like a real girl – fragile and tender, while a man feels like a real man – a strong defender.
I'm terrified of small heights. Straight to the point of hysteria. Despite the fact that I am usually a moral amoeba and you can't get a reaction from me, I start screeching, squeaking, screaming and digging my claws into everything that comes to hand. By the way, I love normal height. In the sense of floors so 20+, roofs and so on. I can't explain it, maybe I'm afraid they'll drop it, maybe it's just uncomfortable, but I can say a categorical no, I don't like it.�
Remember the immortal “Put Lyudochka in her place and do not touch her with your hands!”
Yes, I like it. On those rare occasions when I was picked up, I experienced wonderful feelings. Partly because there was no doubt that the guy wouldn't drop me, since he was big and tough. It's very fun and pleasant, you feel like a little girl.
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The only time I was picked up outside the context of the apartment, I was dropped. And my “knight” also fell. The absurdity was added by the fact that the purpose of my carrier was to save me from suffering from a sprained ankle while descending the stairs of the entrance. The face of my grandmother, at whose feet we rolled head over heels, needed to be seen. So, no thanks, I can do it on my own, with two feet on the surface.
I really like it) But only if a loved one does it. And if some left-wing dude wants to demonstrate his strength, especially without permission-horror. If you want to take a girl in your arms, make sure that she fully trusts you and that she is comfortable with you.
I will answer on the other hand: not all girls know how to sit on their hands! They'll fall apart like sacks and wait to be transported…
The most striking example of the difference is herea lady sprawled out like a corpse and a girl sitting right here.
I'll try to explain how to do this better.
When the guy bends down, the girl leans her armpit on his shoulder (where the collarbone, not the biceps-triceps). That is, it wraps around the guy's neck, like in a chokehold, only from the front. With this technique, the girl actually hangs with her armpit on her shoulder, and not with her hands on her neck. Because of this, the girl's body weight passes from the guy's hands to his body. Plus, it forces the girl to strain during the “transfer”, which makes it easier for the guy to do the task. And it looks gorgeous.�
The best example I could find was the way a man is holding onto a girl's neck. This is exactly the way to hold on.�
So girls, try to find a guy and train on him in front of the registry office, so as not to hang on the guy like a load on a horse, but to fly up into his arms like a princess.)))
p.s.
Wearing ladies, of course, is a pleasure, but do not forget that overworking a guy is not your goal)
Like. But it depends on the person – everyone is different, in fact, and according to physical data, too. I am a fragile girl (162cm/38kg), for me such actions have become commonplace. Let them at least carry it under my arm, I feel good.
For some reason, all my men were very eager to carry me in their arms. Most likely not for my joy, but in order to show my heroic strength. And I must say, I was quietly worn, although I do not have the shape of Thumbelina. This continued until the young man dropped me on my back on an iron ladder, adding 80 kilograms on top of me. I don't know how I didn't get hurt. A few years later, my then-future husband didn't believe this story. He probably thought I was kicking in his arms, not out of fear, but out of embarrassment. He ended up dropping me (again with my back) on the wooden frame of the bed. It was painful. But it doesn't raise it anymore.
Moral of this, glory to Cthulhu, happy story: calculate your strength, beloved men. And don't push the responsibility onto the wrong girl sitting in your arms.
oh yeah. Whirl me around, whirl me around!
I like to feel like a light fluff, a princess in strong hands. But if a completely random man / guy etc tries to touch me, then you can get it in the eye. So it's better to clarify.
I like it;) of course, I will shout that “put me down, I'm heavy”, but I like it)) the main thing is not to stop and do not give up this business;))
After reading the answers, I realized: how lucky I was!))) with a height of 157cm, with a weight of 46kg, I just love to sit on my hands, back and neck!)�
Well, the conclusion is the same, it turns out-each girl has her own approach)
“Put me down, I'm heavy.”�
Although, I noticed that most girls still like it. It's all about complexes ( and a few other reasons) and nothing more.
No.
Very few boys in my life understand the anatomy of my body and hurt me. Here are all sorts of hugs there-this is better by far.
I personally like it… Immediately there are thoughts that the guy is really attentive, gentle and caring towards you. Makes you remember its power:)) �
But my friend doesn't like it at all: she feels as if she is being squeezed like a kitten.
Here, first of all, the person should be most pleasant and close to you. When a semi-familiar or unpleasant person is enough, it's not pleasant enough. This is harassment. Secondly, it is better, of course, if the guy is not puffing in your ear from the weight and you do not feel unfeminine and unaffordable. The guy, I think, is also embarrassed. And in general, I want it to be a moment of tenderness, a demonstration of his feelings, strength and reliability, but I don't want the thoughts “now he'll drop it or we'll jump together”. So, both moral and physical factors are equally important here))) And evaluate your strength in advance, and think about your health, in the end, not all the beautiful ladies on their hands to wear, and then you never know what consequences)) And so, of course, it is insanely pleasant) To be honest, I was very pleased even when a classmate I liked picked me up in his arms and… dragged me to the nearest snowdrift in the school yard to bury me there: D�
I wish you good luck))
I would love to be in the arms of someone I love, but with my 189 centimeters, it doesn't seem to work out. Even if the guy is taller.�
I was lifted once. Feels like it… Well, it was fun and a little scary.
I think not all girls “want to handle”.На For the taste and color, as they say.
I personally don't want to! I'm afraid that they will drop (* -*) Right feeling of panic covers. But when they “carry on their hands” – in the sense of caring-yes, it is very pleasant again in moderation, so that it is not cloying. In the sense of feeling a strong person next to you-it's nice when a guy is physically developed(nooo, not necessarily pumped up,not necessarily at all.), so that the atmosphere is created right next to him, that he is young, strong and full of enthusiasm!
When you are a 175cm tall girl and someone below 190 is trying to lift you, it looks very awkward and makes you feel uncomfortable.
Personally, I feel like a hippo when I'm grabbed like this (at 59 kg). It's not elegant at all, I'm more like a sack of potatoes in this position. It's better to jump on your back, so it's easier and more fun.
I don't give a damn about a particular male and his athletic characteristics: hanging on to something is generally disgusting. The weight of your own body is pressing down on you. My ribs are heavy, my shoulders are heavy, there is no question of any relaxation there at all, I would not break in half. Psychological pleasure, for me so dubious, but there are all their lovers.
If I'm going to ride someone, I choose to sit on my shoulders.
Girls are all different, some do not like it when they are touched at all, and even more so when they are picked up (and even in a public place), and someone on the contrary finds it funny and pleasant. If a girl starts to react negatively to attempts to pick her up in her arms, then it's better to leave it, otherwise it looks like harassment. In addition, unfortunately, many girls are shy about their weight, so you can only spoil the mood, complexes-they are like that. Speaking for myself, I feel stupid when someone picks me up, unless it's a guy who's twice my size.)