I don't like life. What to do?
I don't understand these people, I don't fit into any field. It's a lot more boring than I imagined before.
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You just didn't find your place in it. This is the most important thing to do – search. In any case, do not give up. Understand that everything goes like a snowball in life. Here you will find some positive snowflake, cling to it, then another one will follow, and in a couple of years you will already be on a huge snow woman. This is the beauty of our life.
Surely this attitude is due to something. If you do something that you don't enjoy, change your occupation. It's never too late to do this. Is something wrong? Upgrade your skills or change your approach. Can't connect with people? Try to look for communication in other places, other layers of society. There are no hopeless situations. Moreover, there are always several possible scenarios.
You are now in a state of denial. You won't like the white light until you get rid of it. You don't like everything by default – change this setting. Search, develop, and get out of your comfort zone. It's better to make mistakes than to do nothing. And remember that time is the most valuable resource we have. There's nothing worse than looking back and realizing that you've wasted a lot of time. So start moving towards the future right now.
The meaning of life has always occupied my mind. I also didn't understand what I wanted or what I was striving for. At that time, everything was bad in my life, there was practically no reason to be happy. Such thoughts lead the mind into a state of hopelessness or lack of interest in life.
No wonder you have such unpleasant feelings when looking at this world in which everything is mixed up. And you don't understand: where is the good and where is the evil? Where is the light and where is the darkness?
Life can be compared to a maze.
Someone finds a way out of it, that is, their own happiness. And someone can't find it and suffers from hopelessness. And then he stops trying altogether, so that he doesn't get upset or disappointed anymore.
A person gives up searching and boredom appears, because it is not interesting to constantly look at the same wall without a picture. And what can I offer you if you refuse to make any choice yourself? While you are idle, life passes by.
It is up to you to decide what your future will be like.
First, you need to understand what you want or why you are tired. Get rid of all the heavy stuff and start moving. Perhaps you need someone to help you get out of this state.
What should be the person who will guide you?
He should be happier than you, because the person is striving for a state, not a skill. If you have a high level of inner happiness and a stable state (that is, you will be safe), you will overcome any obstacles and acquire any number of skills to achieve your goals. The main thing is to start “glowing”
He should understand your feelings so that he understands how to achieve the necessary state.
You must want to go after him yourself. Remember that you can't help a person if they don't want to. There is an expression: “Do not pull a person out of the swamp. First, ask if he lives there?”
When you can change your state, the level of happiness inside will increase, and you will understand what it means to love yourself. You will have a taste for life.
Perhaps you will understand that getting physical experience is the meaning of life. You will start to be more sensitive to your health and feelings. Or you want other things, for example, to become a “Master of the Astral” or dark forces.
The main thing is to act
Don't think that depriving yourself of a physical body will solve your problem. No. Because the body is mortal, but the soul is eternal. You will realize that there is no death, but it will be too late. So try to find a way out of this maze, and when you find it, you will definitely like the result.
This is because there are no necessary skills for life.
There is such a small life hack – if you want to enjoy some activity, learn to do it well. The connection is iron: if you know how , you will like it, if you don't know how, it will be unpleasant.
Because the brain likes to feel cool.
You can learn to understand people and communicate with them. Become a specialist in your field and learn how to work without burnout-too.
Just know that there are a lot of such people. Not everyone can be happy and have fun like children all the time. Just find something that you are very interested in and no matter how profitable it is for money or authoritative in society, just be really passionate about something just for yourself.
What kind of life are you talking about?
You don't like life, basically, you don't like the life of the majority or you don't like your life?
And more. What do you want to do about it?
This means that you had a picture in your head of the life that you liked. What is important to you in this picture? What is the most valuable thing for you in this presentation? What are you like in this picture? What do you want to be?
What, in your opinion, prevents you from making this picture a reality?) What small steps can you take right now to start making your dreams come true? Who can be useful to you in implementing what you want? What can you do for these people?)
What skills and abilities do you need to implement your plan? What skills and abilities do you already have? Which ones should I get?
What else will be a resource for you to make your dream life come true?)
If you really want to make a difference, take the time and attention to answer these questions.
If you want to make it easier, contact an expert and find a guide. Fortunately, there are a lot of helping practitioners and technologies today.
Good luck to you.� )
Fuuf, so I'm not the only one!))
“Answers to questions… Interrogations… More interrogations…”
I've been trying to understand people for 10 years.
They can be understood, but don't waste your energy on it.
Trying to fit into the circle. Didn't fit in…
I thought that life would go according to the script, but everything broke down…
And now, at 30, I'm at about the same level as I was at 20.
I could say that I am warmed by what I have focused my efforts on. Yes, a little warmer, but no)
Between a palm tree and a golden palm tree – don't choose the golden one. It's slippery…
You don't have a choice. Life is not clothes to choose from. You can't compare life to anything and then say whether you like it or not. The opposite of life is death, but you have never experienced it. The description of it is only in the imagination of people. You won't be able to assess your condition there. Even if you plunge into Nirvana, you will not be able to stay there forever, and Nirvana will be achieved only during life, because this state is one of the manifestations of life.
Name something real that you like. Got nothing. Only life and reason make it possible to be aware of yourself and life itself. You should accept it for what it is. The world is made up of opposites. It has both good and bad things for us. Therefore, you will never be able to get rid of the bad, but there are also good things. Strive for this, overcoming obstacles, and you will have more good things.
Accept life as it is.
Another example. You want to see Paris. To see it, you need preparations, then the trip itself. I.e. You're wasting your time on it. It's only natural. You can say that the trip itself is pleasant, but this is only an excuse. After all, your destination was Paris. And you don't need to go on and on and on. Think of life as a journey to Paris. We'll have to go anyway. And so that it is not tedious, find entertainment.
I wonder who asked this question? A person who was just born or a person who lived his life. You spoke up and I understood you. You already know the answer to your question, otherwise you wouldn't be asking it. You ask: “What should I do?”And, in general, what did you do to make it, life, you liked? You have to solve your problems yourself, no one else will solve your problems and only you can do it. There are no drugs to cure you. You need to change, and then the whole world will change. How to change you know best. Change!!! Good luck to you! With respect.
This psychological state can be a symptom of problems in the endocrine system. Personally, I had a thyroid condition. Try to consult an endocrinologist and pass the tests assigned to them. If you are healthy, I will be happy for you, if there are problems, then the sooner you take action, the better.
The first is to become a philosopher, if that's what you're asking yourself.
Secondly, to decide whether to lead a “vegetable” form of life: just eat, drink and go to the toilet or look for the meaning of life?
And, you know, I think that if you really want something, it will come. That's what you want? Don't live? Or live as you like? Life is multi-faceted. Have you learned all the facets of life? And you don't like all of them? And, is there a person who has experienced life in its entirety?
Do something, and your question will be answered.
Life is a process that happens all the time. We can't sit still and watch him from the sidelines. We are pushed in the back by our innate desires. And if they are not satisfied, there is apathy, depression, despondency, a sense of meaninglessness of life, etc. To change the situation, you need to understand yourself, understand the reasons why certain events occur. Then the attitude to what is happening also changes. When we understand ourselves and others, we have the opportunity to interact with other people at a higher level, enjoy life, and realize our abilities and talents for the benefit of society. Life becomes joyful and meaningful. A person consists of the desire to receive joy and pleasure. Each of you has your own characteristics, your own talents, innate qualities, predisposition to different activities, which means that you get joy in different ways . Children choose interesting classes on a whim. But the older a person is, the more he has imposed desires that are accepted in society, in the circle of friends, among relatives. Even if you do not fulfill your wishes perfectly, you will not be happy. People's talents are determined by their vectors and mental characteristics.
I don't like it either! Therefore, what I can do, I will cover for myself. I'll put up with the rest. The times of day, year, weather, and environment change… I will accept, with gratitude, if nothing breaks the harmony, and I lose my peace, then I will cherish the moment of happiness that fell out more. It is peaceful, satisfying and has a roof over your head, a cozy bed and a faithful husband, healthy and successful children… Such a minimum is only dreamed of by billions of people on the planet! Then a tsunami, then an economic crisis, then the children will kick up, the husband's sexy domagivaet… I WANT-remains in childhood, IT is NECESSARY-it comes by itself, will force, will teach. A clumsy person will rob a neighbor of worldly goods, but you will not reap happiness in someone else's misfortune! Someone will take revenge, punish a hundredfold.
It's hard if you don't love anyone and nothing is cute! For beautiful eyes only in children. sadike can be loved. I loved puppies, butterflies, birds… Snow, clean air, water, forest, mushrooms… How to live without a homeland? It is terrible to lose everything because of wars, diseases, catastrophes! God save us! Protect us from all evil, for Your mercy's sake!
Search, search and search again for yourself and your own! Who knows what will happen in the next life and what happened in the past? Maybe everything is the same! And also, set achievable goals in life, do not set yourself high standards that are beyond your abilities!
Find a hobby that will allow you to think less about your question.
Life is a given, a biological process, the meaning of which is only in the continuation of the genus and the transmission of the gene.
In order to enjoy life, first you need to collect your thoughts about what you want from this life. Go outside and see how beautiful everything is.
Go to one of the other firms.
Try to get a job for a month or two to work.
If you don't like it, get a job with another company.
Then you'll get a taste for life and change your outlook on life.
The fact that you think about your life, about its quality is already a good right step. Perhaps it is necessary to change a lot in it?! Change your city or move from the city to the suburbs. Find something else to do, new friends. This is your life! Fight for it! And everything will definitely work out
Stay at home and read books! Constantly! Without a break! Well, I allow you to eat and go to the toilet. In the end, you will run into the book you need and you will understand everything))) well, you can also ask knowledgeable people what books are better to read.
Your brain isn't designed to make you enjoy life. But he is easily satisfied with new cars on credit, new acquaintances for one night. If you realize this, go ahead and look for an activity where you can create something new. Use the peculiarities of your thinking to solve problems that no one else has solved before during your life. Find like-minded people and study perfectly the area of knowledge that interests you and brings results. In short, do something other than emptying the refrigerator and sexual entertainment, this is successfully done by intestinal parasitic worms, whose nervous system was reduced as unnecessary.
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