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  1. Carry and use self-defense weapons-pepper spray, a traumatic or air pistol, a knife (which is not a cold weapon ), and it is also not prohibited by law to have a hammer with you, for example . If you show bullies that there is a real danger to them, it will scare them away . You also need to learn how to hit so that the enemy falls . Take up boxing or mixed martial arts . A normal kick or combination of punches can be delivered not even by a professional coach, but simply by a person who has been engaged or is currently engaged. Or YouTube to help, there are a lot of video lessons. I personally observed an example of cutting down a carcass weighing about one hundred and ten kilograms with one blow, by a guy weighing about seventy . The main thing is a well-placed shot . When the most brazen of the attackers falls, it has a very sobering effect on others . Good luck!

  2. First, let's start with the fact that if this is a really serious problem, and not just someone who sometimes bothers you, as it happens literally in every class, then it is wise to contact your parents with this, and then, if necessary, to a psychologist and the police. Beatings are no longer much, no less, a serious article, a violation of the law. We can already talk about juvenile delinquency. And this is not a joke. At school, there are cases of serious injuries, including stabbings. Such things should not be hushed up or put on the brakes – not for parents, not for the child. People don't seem to know how many criminals started out as minors.

    Asking for help from your elders is not shameful, it is a typical nonsense “what are you not a kid, you can't do it yourself?”. If people knew how many such” boys “and” non-boys ” are distributed in prisons and cemeteries, maybe the convolutions in the head would strain a little to make a more reasonable decision. By the way, this also applies to girls, they have slightly different specifics, but the essence is similar, and what kind of beatings and fights they have is generally a separate conversation.

    Secondly, you need to be able to stand up for yourself. In the short term, this is not working advice, and if your opponent is inadequate, then it is better not to run into it again, even if you can do something – you can be attacked surreptitiously, in a crowd, or something else. Violence is not a solution to the problem, but often makes it worse. Strength often has a good preventive effect, i.e. if they know that you are strong, maybe they conditionally go to boxing there, then they will not meddle with you again. The point is not to punch everyone in the face and show that you are now cool, not what you used to be. Self-defense courses are also available for girls. It will be useful for everyone.

    Third, you should consider transferring to another school. I did just that because of a fight. I was often harassed myself, and once the situation turned out this way. In another school, the class was friendly and the problem went away by itself. There are simply, as it is now fashionable to say, toxic teams. Here initially you are against everyone. Such situations should be avoided and not complicate your life by trying to fight windmills.

  3. Go to train and only for martial arts. You understand that you will not be left behind for the simple reason that you are weak. Until you show your character and fight back, you will continue to be beaten.

    So go ahead and tell your parents right now that you want to sign up for martial arts. Because only there you will be able to pump up your character, strength, confidence, spirit, muscles, skills and will be fully educated by the male spirit.

    Good luck to you!

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