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The name, of course, affects the fate, but it seems to me that this influence is overestimated. Still, the main influence on the formation of personality is provided by genetics and upbringing. But each name carries a special energy, if it suits a person, it correctly adjusts biorhythms, but does not decide fate. Maybe all the Nasties you knew were harmful, but this is just your experience. Generalizing all people with the same name is ridiculous. Generalizations by value, by numbers, and by tables are also far-fetched and mean nothing. I read the book “Name and Life” by Leonard Boyard, many interesting ideas about the name. It is necessary to look at the child, what he is like and then choose a name.
In certain cases-yes, for example, after the release of one of the issues of “Ural Dumplings”, in which there was a sketch “IIIIIIIIGOR”, my life changed dramatically. People with whom I have never communicated before call me exactly with the intonation with which Rozhkov pronounces in this sketch. I suffered a lot at school, and now I suffer at uni. But I hope that everyone will soon forget it and I will live in peace again.
Here I look at the answers of all sorts of Vladislavs, Antonovs, Yekaterina and Anastasia, and it becomes funny to me.
My name is Spartak, and I declare with all responsibility that having an extremely rare name is not cool. Old friends no longer pay anyone any attention to this, but new acquaintances…�
Every… no… EVERYONE is obliged to clarify when meeting whether it is a nickname, what is my real name, how I managed to raise a slave revolt in the center of the Roman Empire, why my name is not Zenit or CSKA, and how much my parents support the football club of the same name (although there is no connection).
Every person in my life thinks their joke about my name is unique and original, although it is not.�
How has this affected my life? Well, in schools, at uni, when teachers and students met, they were awesome and asked again if that was really my name. In banks and state institutions where you need to provide a passport, employees giggle and show it to colleagues.�
I'm not offended by all this, I'm just a bit of a social phobe and I don't like to draw too much attention to myself, and with such a name, as you know, this is impossible.
I am an early and unexpected child in the family. Recently, my parents admitted that they gave me a name based on the principle of “just like people”. Perhaps that is why the female part of the generation born in the early 90's consists of 70% Nastya, Kat and An. This greatly affected my self-perception as a child and teenager. In any team (school class, group in a section or a friendly company) I was the fifth or sixth Katya in a row. Because of this, I always had a thirst to stand out at any cost, to become unique, without fail “Katya number one”.
On the one hand, it toughened my character, at 13 I became a master of sports to prove my exclusivity, I entered Moscow State University without tutors ,got a dream job, and so on.
On the other hand, I still can't calm down, stop drawing attention to myself and be jealous of my namesakes, even though I'm almost 24 years old. I try to work on myself, but sometimes the echoes of this childish thirst for exclusivity get the best of me.�
For the same reason, it's hard for me to understand the owners of unique names whose answers are in the top. I don't even know which is worse, to suffer mockery because of an unusual name, or to fight every day for its uniqueness and feel like a mass-produced product.
Only indirectly, I suppose. Mostly through your entourage, anonymous users on forums and other more sophisticated members of society who feel it their duty to ask you: “Sanya, are you okay?”; or to answer any of your comments, doubts or clarifications, elegantly quote one of the geniuses of the modern music industry. Of course, I mean reasoned: “San, x # y suck”. I also can't help but mention the cat's earlier documented video calls to its owner, Alexander, to open the door, because the weather is quite frosty outside and the cat needs to go to the toilet.�
Why are most memes in Boarding schools about Sledding, you may ask? I'd fucking like to know myself. A little off topic. And the moral of this fable is this: if you are going to laugh at a person for something that he did not choose, then think twice, because, perhaps, in this case, you are a radish, and you can pretty much spoil the life of your classmate or just a friend, especially during the periods of his formation as a person. And if you've come up with a witty rhyme for the name Anton, think twice. Suddenly, in the 18 years of Anton's life, someone has already told him about this wonderful genius couplet before you. Or maybe it was a few people?
By the way, does anyone remember who I borrowed a hundred dollars from?
If the daughter is called Alena, then 100% someday the song “Alena will give” will fly to her address, and it would be good if it was at a conscious age, for example, I had it at school when she just came out, it was wildly infuriating, everyone was gone, I then came up with an excuse like “lessa in the face of the ladies)))” but nitsche, half a year otmuchila, now when I get acquainted with people and pronounce my name sometimes I hear “oh! Alena will give!” and it is perceived as a joke and does not bomb))
“Valera, it's your time” from the guys.
During the popularity of the TV series drug addict Pavlik, I heard this 20 times a day, if not more. Everyone thought it was original and laughed at their own joke. It is surprising that in 2018 there were such people.
“Valera, Valera I will be gentle and faithful” mostly from girls.
Taras, Anton and Statsy eternal memory to you!
Vil. It was a rare name, but there were almost no problems. For any name, you can come up with a “name-calling”. As a child, the parents of many friends thought that the nickname.) �
A typical dialogue between a best friend and his mother:
“Where are you going, Pash?”
“to Vil.”
“you're sick of calling him by his nickname.
Something like that. Now we remember it as a funny case from life.�
In general, everything depends on a particular person and circumstances, and not on the name.�
Son: Vikenty Vilevich. )
The name undoubtedly plays an important role, but so does the bearer of that name. My name is Lala. I have never received a mocking comment on this matter. On the contrary, people were interested in the origin, meaning, and other details. You know, in my life, unlike me, people with very ordinary names very often have to endure ridicule.�
Be able to prove yourself correctly and then let them call you at least “piece of shit”, I say this, of course, very exaggerated, people will treat you normally.
Without mysticism, of course, it has some impact, but exactly where it is given importance. Also horoscopes, palmistry, evil eye. In a sane, educated environment – the impact that comes to naught. But still, parents give a name to the expected child and somehow dream and plan. Sometimes things they didn't manage to do themselves. This may affect it.
Hi) my name is Karina Sokolova (maiden name-Aladina). It really pisses me off that all my life people sooooo carefully ask me: “what is the name of your parents?” (Vyacheslav and Anna, if anything) 😅 I don't have anything against any nations, just fucked up, chess word. And all because of the brown eyes, the PPC is original. Give birth to children-think carefully. I will have someone like Zhenya, Alice or Maxim, in short, which is simpler.
My name is Vladislav, and for my dear friends I am what is love. For the more sophisticated, what is love, baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.�
So we live
So yes, the name affects your life, but not directly, but indirectly, through the environment and its reaction to your name
Truth. Do you know how many “cool” rhymes you can come up with for the name Anton?
I have experienced so many jokes to my name. But thanks to this, I have strengthened my immunity to srachs.
“Whatever you call a ship, it'll spit.”
Yes, I think it does. At the level of psychology, just fine. After all, we set ourselves up in one way or another. Any quality can be attributed here. I'll give you an example: my name translates as “fiery, flaming”, ” it's nice to associate yourself with fire, remembering the ancient Jewish culture, associating yourself with the biblical characters-Seraphim, there is a really beautiful story (they are close to God, simaolize his best qualities, they have six wings and an eye in each feather, they are guards, all-seeing and all-hearing). Having gained an emotional experience, having established a connection with this name, every time I hear someone call me or think about myself, I reinforce the connection in my head: “I'm strong, fiery, passionate.”�
If parents put a message and expectations in us, giving us a name, it is imprinted in our perception.
Social stereotypes and patterns of behavior also set the psychological vector.
You can call verbal definitions mystical, fateful, you can find a rational explanation. Whether the name itself affects us or our own attitude to it, everyone decides for themselves. However, autosuggestion will work.
Hello. my name is Shakhtamirov Genghis Khan, I am a guy with a Russian appearance, speech, but always, absolutely always, I hear criticism, humiliation, discussions, shouts and all sorts of dirt in my address.
Yes, but with a caveat.
Not the name itself, but our attitude to it and to the pronunciation of it by other people. This may well have an impact.
In the yard with me grew up two guys – two Vadim. Only one was called ” Vadim “and the other”Vadka”. From where this contraction grows legs is not known for certain. But what is certain is that Vadka's life was not very good, and Vadim's life was quite normal, but only in my biased opinion it was natural.
But again, it's more about attitude, how we allow other people to call us and relate to us.
I don't really believe in such mysticism, but sometimes names really define our lives.
I have been observing people for quite a long time, and it is no offense to say that Nastya, Alina and Yana have a very bad and fickle character. Ani is sociable, but windy. The Antons are strange. And so on. Maybe it's a stereotype, but I've had enough of them to confirm it.
Personally, I can say about my name that my parents called me Elena, because in fairy tales there were always “Elena beautiful, wonderful, smartest” and so on. Well, in the end, I turned out to be dumb and stupid, and also very strange.
Plus, for you, a name strongly determines your fate if you don't like it. Because sometimes it seems that all the troubles are from him.
My name is Darina. Thematic sites say that by the age of 18 I will turn into a slender, graceful doe…So guys, if I lose 15-20 kg in a month and a half, you can consider the secret of the name true)
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Everyone here (most) thinks they know everything about names? Of course, I don't like to answer questions from many years ago as some kind of brake, but I still think it's relevant. Read, for example, on this site about your name, or your friend, relative, girlfriend, etc.. You will understand that you don't know anything in hell, and even I don't know what this “call” is, I just found out about myself, and I can say that they don't know anything here. No nonsense, just a mystery.
P.S.
I apologize for the ridiculous bias, no majority, people's answers are normal.
Our attitude to our own name affects our life. Above, there were already examples of self-perception through associations,I am no exception. My name is translated from ancient Greek as “resurrected” or “immortal”, and it is also the feminine form of the male name Anastasia. And as a child and teenager, I was very impressionable and interested in mysticism and the like, and since my name means “coming back to life” and is also formed from a male name, then I can bear everything in life and have no right to be weak. Only by the age of 17 did I realize that this is all bullshit and I have every right to my emotions and their manifestation. But on the other hand, I became immune to rejection and provocation and, in general, to the blows of life. But the name itself does not affect fate (which in fact it does not) and life.
My name means winner. And I really am what is called a “winner in life”. Probably, only the guys who play losers in American movies are more unlucky than me, and that's still debatable. So I can say that nihrenashechki it all does not affect, and “as you call it and swim” is complete nonsense.
My name translates to “guest”. I've moved so many times in my entire life that it's like visiting everywhere. By the age of 26, there is no place to say ” I'm home.” There are places where I spend the night. A month, a few years.
True.�
That's what they'll call you Laurentius , and that's it… there is a 90% chance that you will be picked up at school, which will affect your socialization and inferiority complexes. Just like Bogdan, I'm telling you.
And if Anton is called, then maybe the school will ignore the aspect of ordinariness-the unusualness of your name, but you will carry the rhyme with latex product number 1 for life.�
And if the guy Nadya name – something hard for him in life will have.�
And here's another thing, when giving a name to a child, remember that you also give him a patronymic and surname! Emilian Ivanovich Prokopenko will also have a little unpleasant life in some places.
And about these energies and changing the name means changing the fate-this is pseudoscience, there is no evidence, and the hypotheses do not stand up to scientific criticism.