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You don't have to try to be the kind of person you're not by nature. “Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are,” as Kurt Cobain used to say.
Unfortunately, you will never become such a charismatic-ideal sanguine person with a bit of choleric if you are an introvert at the gene level and generally phlegmatic, so thick-skinned that fire is like warm water to you. But of course you can move in the right direction by training in eloquence and similar things, the main thing is to understand, in our case, let's say a melancholic introvert, that the company of people and being in the center of attention is not so bad, but it's just that these people often cause internal discomfort, although you can get used to any discomfort. That is, once again, if the character can be changed often even very radically, then the temperament is difficult, since it is laid down at the biological level due to the structure of neural connections( if I'm not mistaken, the nodes of the connection of neurons), but charisma can be raised with the help of many interesting life situations, the skill of eloquence, as specified above, an inexhaustible supply of jokes and, in the end, a sense of humor, I mean that an adequate sense of humor is a sign of high intelligence. With sociability, things are different, here you just need to overcome yourself and go to communicate, or rather learn, maybe you will like it, who knows, but if in the case of charisma, yes, you need it, then with sociability, there is a moot point.