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  1. There is an understandable kindness when not being an asshole.And there is kindness to help everyone who asks because a good guy / girl.You can just get rid of it by asking yourself a few questions before saying “Yes, I'll help you” to a man who asks for help to carry his 4 bags with incomprehensible contents through the bazaar when you just passed by.First of all, understand whether they are trying to manipulate you, whether they accept it as a given, a duty, and be guided by their own considerations whether it will be difficult for me to do this now, whether it will interfere with my schedule, whether I will be late, etc.

    To part 1 of the question I ask myself)

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