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  1. This is a very deep question. Any life is a fairy tale, a miracle, the potential of flowering. Inside is a pearl. It is worth finding, for everyone will have their own path. Everyone has different initial conditions, that's for sure! You need to literally love yourself and develop this habit number 1. All comparisons are subjective and incomplete, since we are extremely different in terms of both physics and mental constitution.

    On the other hand, the habit of comparing is a habit. It has a purpose. Positive – improving yourself. But in this case, you can play too much, forgetting yourself. If you track it down, the comparison usually brings frustration, pain, or superiority. To some extent, it is useless. But it can only be applied.

  2. Alexand answered everything correctly, but to avoid complicated chatter, here are the options:: 1) Consider yourself too great to compare yourself with such nonentities: pros: you stop comparing, cons: they stop communicating with you, because no one likes ChSV in principle; 2) Take the path of Buddhism, renounce worldly, and not only Buddhism: pros: you are free, your mind goes with the flow/reunites with God, your problem is no longer a problem, cons: it's hard to live like this, you need to have self-control, including subconscious, to rebuild yourself in time; 3) Become a person and live your life already on the basis of comparison (information): pros: you are a person, you are a separate person and you know that all people are different, so logically there is no point in comparing you and someone else, solve your problem simply – the simplest way, accept yourself as an individualist. 4) Understand (accept) that all this does not make sense and just live (by analogy with paragraph 2, but only there is a bias towards religiosity, and here in philophy): pros: the problem is solved, cons: life is rotten.

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