Being a girl means, first of all, taking care of yourself. Because”you're a girl. ” Almost daily shaving, because you can not allow even a small stubble, unlike boys. And no one will like, excuse me, hairy podmykhi, and men can be forgiven for that. Being a girl is about manners. You can't do this, you can't do that. And I, damn it, also want to take off my T-shirt in the heat and walk down the street with my bare torso, but no, they won't understand me that way. And in general, being a girl is a very big job. I'm talking about girls, not women. But in fact, it's very fun and beautiful:)
Basically, everyone does not look at you as a person, but evaluates you in relation to gender. “Smart for a girl”, “this is not a woman's business” and other similar moments. You don't live all the time, but you prove something to someone. That you are “not like that”, that you are a good specialist, even though you are a girl, that you have the right to look as you want, and not as society demands. Sometimes being a girl is frankly unpleasant. Loose citizens in public places allow themselves to pull their hands where you do not want them to feel at all. When discussing a case, one way or another, the authorities can make a sexist joke. They also kill members of their own sex, who were brainwashed by the patriarchal society so that almost nothing remained of it. Yesterday, such a lady proved to me that raising a daughter independent and independent means condemning her to an unhappy life. But there are also advantages. You are freer in choosing clothes than a man, freer in choosing a hobby: agree, a girl with a” male “hobby causes less dissonance than a guy with a “girly” one. In general, this is my opinion. It may not be 100% correct, or even completely complete.
Joyfully. And both in the literal sense and with sarcasm. Especially thanks to sexism and stereotypes!) You can take offense at them, you can ignore them, you can use them profitably for yourself, or you can break them altogether. The choice of option is based on the situation.)) “All your judgments about me will be used against you.”
PMS? “no, your stupidity.
Do you collect 40 cats? “for you .”
let's get acquainted? “only at my office when you come in as a client.” * I hold out a business card (In this case, I once printed a hundred morgue-type business cards)*
And so on. And in many ways, it's easier for girls than for guys. And men pay more attention to us than to other men…
Being a girl means being smart.�After all, you need to be able to plan a vacation not just so that there is enough money and there is good weather, but also to bypass “these” days. You need to have a couple of “magic” techniques to solve the problem with the arrow on your tights, which you just put in a bus crush on the way to work, and to make a dirty head “clean” five minutes before the exit. You need to be able to change clothes on the beach in the absence of changing booths. You need to be able to choose (big breasts or comfort? beauty or calluses on your feet from heels? You need to manage to remain a girl in any situation and under any circumstances.
Being a girl means being strong. It is necessary to have the strength to withstand pregnancy, childbirth, the consequences of childbirth and child care (often with complete disregard on the part of the child's father). You need to have the strength to fight off anxious men, be able to respond to dirty jokes and vulgar hints, and cope with the underestimation of yourself by men (especially misogynists). You need to have the strength to be beautiful. You need to have the strength to remain a girl in any situation and under any circumstances.
P.S. Thank you to all those men who appreciate us and take care of us! 🙂
it is believed that you should be careful, be able to cook food and find a common language with other people's children.
you can't just ask the guy you like out on a date. that is, you can, of course, but it immediately makes you very vulnerable.
I'm always afraid of getting pregnant.
during menstruation, it's scary that you'll leak.
you don't know where to put yourself: either in feminists, or in fitonyashki, or in ladyfly, or in religion, or in bodypositive and intuitive nutrition.
sometimes the ass in the morning looks just huge, although, it would seem, in the evening everything was normal.
in general, it is not easy, yes ,but we are holding on.
Some strange answers, really . It's normal to be a girl ,there are pros and cons, just like everywhere else . I don't mention any special bias , you just need to behave accordingly to the circumstances . In principle, you can do anything , public opinion in general needs to be listened to less often, all people, regardless of gender . Perhaps we tend to exaggerate all sorts of small problems . More than men , we worry about children, and also about our appearance . And the notorious PMS, about which everyone likes to talk so much – this is not a terrible monster, many women pass quite calmly . And if it really bothers you so much, then you need to go to the doctor , adjust the hormonal background. In general, everything is not even bad .
Annoying little inappropriate questions like: 24? How is there no boyfriend?Give birth when? AND GET MARRIED?I say: I don't want to. how?A woman must give birth and get married by 25. It's too late.” Are you a lesbian or something? Why isn't the guy there? And for some reason I have to make excuses, they say I don't want for the drunk infantile, who believes that Minsk is the capital of Ukraine. I have to prove that for money and for other tsatskis I will not go to bed, men somehow look strange, they say a fool. And my friends, too
Regarding the Internet, I can say one thing. Being a girl on the Internet is not cool, well, not a drop. For several years now, I have been maintaining accounts with masculine names and writing in the masculine gender. Why? Because then you are perceived normally, precisely as an equal interlocutor, then you can calmly talk about anything. With a female account, they are perceived primarily as a woman and as if they are talking, as if they are mentally retarded, and they necessarily begin to involve the fact of belonging to the female sex in the conversation. In addition, even despite the obvious lack of photos, all sorts of very interesting personalities were climbing in order to get acquainted. With a man's account, such things disappeared automatically.�
I hope I haven't offended anyone here right now. Really, I'm sorry if I accidentally touched someone.
It's fine, actually… The only thing that annoys me is ailments once a month and the eternal fear of getting pregnant (even when everything is already under control, this is probably already at the level of phobia). And so it's very good, everyone smiles at you, everyone is usually nice to you…. sometimes it's too much, but it's not something you can't live with. Well, yes, sometimes there are side effects, but you can always count on the help of other people. So personally, I have no complaints)).
That sucks. Cursed-immediately fi, smoked-again fi. Drunk – an alcoholic. Outraged – I got your PMS, too quiet-boring, too sociable-whore. There were a lot of guys-a whore, there were few guys-are you normal at all?� And also gossip girl friends, goat men and give me 40 cats as soon as possible! =)
Being a girl means, first of all, taking care of yourself. Because”you're a girl. ” Almost daily shaving, because you can not allow even a small stubble, unlike boys. And no one will like, excuse me, hairy podmykhi, and men can be forgiven for that. Being a girl is about manners. You can't do this, you can't do that. And I, damn it, also want to take off my T-shirt in the heat and walk down the street with my bare torso, but no, they won't understand me that way. And in general, being a girl is a very big job. I'm talking about girls, not women. But in fact, it's very fun and beautiful:)
Basically, everyone does not look at you as a person, but evaluates you in relation to gender. “Smart for a girl”, “this is not a woman's business” and other similar moments.
You don't live all the time, but you prove something to someone. That you are “not like that”, that you are a good specialist, even though you are a girl, that you have the right to look as you want, and not as society demands.
Sometimes being a girl is frankly unpleasant. Loose citizens in public places allow themselves to pull their hands where you do not want them to feel at all. When discussing a case, one way or another, the authorities can make a sexist joke.
They also kill members of their own sex, who were brainwashed by the patriarchal society so that almost nothing remained of it. Yesterday, such a lady proved to me that raising a daughter independent and independent means condemning her to an unhappy life.
But there are also advantages. You are freer in choosing clothes than a man, freer in choosing a hobby: agree, a girl with a” male “hobby causes less dissonance than a guy with a “girly” one.
In general, this is my opinion. It may not be 100% correct, or even completely complete.
Joyfully. And both in the literal sense and with sarcasm. Especially thanks to sexism and stereotypes!) You can take offense at them, you can ignore them, you can use them profitably for yourself, or you can break them altogether. The choice of option is based on the situation.)) “All your judgments about me will be used against you.”
PMS? “no, your stupidity.
Do you collect 40 cats? “for you .”
let's get acquainted? “only at my office when you come in as a client.” * I hold out a business card (In this case, I once printed a hundred morgue-type business cards)*
And so on. And in many ways, it's easier for girls than for guys. And men pay more attention to us than to other men…
Being a girl means being smart.�After all, you need to be able to plan a vacation not just so that there is enough money and there is good weather, but also to bypass “these” days. You need to have a couple of “magic” techniques to solve the problem with the arrow on your tights, which you just put in a bus crush on the way to work, and to make a dirty head “clean” five minutes before the exit. You need to be able to change clothes on the beach in the absence of changing booths. You need to be able to choose (big breasts or comfort? beauty or calluses on your feet from heels? You need to manage to remain a girl in any situation and under any circumstances.
Being a girl means being strong. It is necessary to have the strength to withstand pregnancy, childbirth, the consequences of childbirth and child care (often with complete disregard on the part of the child's father). You need to have the strength to fight off anxious men, be able to respond to dirty jokes and vulgar hints, and cope with the underestimation of yourself by men (especially misogynists). You need to have the strength to be beautiful. You need to have the strength to remain a girl in any situation and under any circumstances.
P.S. Thank you to all those men who appreciate us and take care of us! 🙂
not easy.
it is believed that you should be careful, be able to cook food and find a common language with other people's children.
you can't just ask the guy you like out on a date. that is, you can, of course, but it immediately makes you very vulnerable.
I'm always afraid of getting pregnant.
during menstruation, it's scary that you'll leak.
you don't know where to put yourself: either in feminists, or in fitonyashki, or in ladyfly, or in religion, or in bodypositive and intuitive nutrition.
sometimes the ass in the morning looks just huge, although, it would seem, in the evening everything was normal.
in general, it is not easy, yes
,but we are holding on.
Some strange answers, really . It's normal to be a girl ,there are pros and cons, just like everywhere else . I don't mention any special bias , you just need to behave accordingly to the circumstances . In principle, you can do anything , public opinion in general needs to be listened to less often, all people, regardless of gender . Perhaps we tend to exaggerate all sorts of small problems . More than men , we worry about children, and also about our appearance . And the notorious PMS, about which everyone likes to talk so much – this is not a terrible monster, many women pass quite calmly . And if it really bothers you so much, then you need to go to the doctor , adjust the hormonal background. In general, everything is not even bad .
Annoying little inappropriate questions like: 24? How is there no boyfriend?Give birth when? AND GET MARRIED?I say: I don't want to. how?A woman must give birth and get married by 25. It's too late.” Are you a lesbian or something? Why isn't the guy there? And for some reason I have to make excuses, they say I don't want for the drunk infantile, who believes that Minsk is the capital of Ukraine. I have to prove that for money and for other tsatskis I will not go to bed, men somehow look strange, they say a fool. And my friends, too
Regarding the Internet, I can say one thing. Being a girl on the Internet is not cool, well, not a drop. For several years now, I have been maintaining accounts with masculine names and writing in the masculine gender. Why? Because then you are perceived normally, precisely as an equal interlocutor, then you can calmly talk about anything. With a female account, they are perceived primarily as a woman and as if they are talking, as if they are mentally retarded, and they necessarily begin to involve the fact of belonging to the female sex in the conversation. In addition, even despite the obvious lack of photos, all sorts of very interesting personalities were climbing in order to get acquainted. With a man's account, such things disappeared automatically.�
I hope I haven't offended anyone here right now. Really, I'm sorry if I accidentally touched someone.
It's fine, actually… The only thing that annoys me is ailments once a month and the eternal fear of getting pregnant (even when everything is already under control, this is probably already at the level of phobia). And so it's very good, everyone smiles at you, everyone is usually nice to you…. sometimes it's too much, but it's not something you can't live with. Well, yes, sometimes there are side effects, but you can always count on the help of other people. So personally, I have no complaints)).
That sucks. Cursed-immediately fi, smoked-again fi. Drunk – an alcoholic. Outraged – I got your PMS, too quiet-boring, too sociable-whore. There were a lot of guys-a whore, there were few guys-are you normal at all?�
And also gossip girl friends, goat men and give me 40 cats as soon as possible!
=)