I stopped responding to every attack and thinking that I should have the last word. Sometimes it's easier for me to keep quiet, to pretend that I didn't hear the taunt, to save my emotional resources for something more worthwhile.
I suddenly understood the lyrics of songs and poems, as well as some proverbs and sayings that as a child sounded like a foreign unfamiliar language. Apparently, the experience appeared, and all the interpretations of personally gained experience in culture and folk art immediately responded :))
Maybe I'll say it corny, but-the ability to independently make decisions about your life, and take responsibility for them. The ability to fully take care of yourself and provide for yourself, not to depend on anyone. Starting with such trifles, when you call the clinic to make an appointment, call yourself to book a ticket at the train station, you call your employer for the first time about a vacancy 🙂 And also, when you are trusted to take care of the younger ones.
I noticed two fundamental changes:
I stopped responding to every attack and thinking that I should have the last word. Sometimes it's easier for me to keep quiet, to pretend that I didn't hear the taunt, to save my emotional resources for something more worthwhile.
I suddenly understood the lyrics of songs and poems, as well as some proverbs and sayings that as a child sounded like a foreign unfamiliar language. Apparently, the experience appeared, and all the interpretations of personally gained experience in culture and folk art immediately responded :))
Maybe I'll say it corny, but-the ability to independently make decisions about your life, and take responsibility for them. The ability to fully take care of yourself and provide for yourself, not to depend on anyone. Starting with such trifles, when you call the clinic to make an appointment, call yourself to book a ticket at the train station, you call your employer for the first time about a vacancy 🙂 And also, when you are trusted to take care of the younger ones.