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I think that the question is about those questions that allow you to fall in love with a person. A few years ago, I read a similar article, and these questions themselves.All as one are built on the principle of “pleasant sensations” and this effect increases from question to question.I was interested in this and decided to try this effect (at that time I was without a girl). I flipped through the pages in contact, found a girl who looks more pleasant to me, and started communicating with the words =accidentally found, liked Ava= and other nonsense.And then for 2 weeks we talked and I asked her these very questions, 1-2 a day, to which I gradually brought her out. As for example = Hi, can you imagine, I heard a song on the street today, and when I came home for some reason I couldn't forget it,I sang it all day and even in the shower..ahaha)), and you have such a thing that you sing alone for yourself? like you're a rock singer? or the idol of millions?)= well, something like that.And as a result, after 1 month + – a week, we were already in a relationship, I must admit that from this I myself swam. But the story ends with the fact that we broke up because I went to the army (in short,I was lucky).
After a year and a half, again from nothing to do on the same principle, I found a girl again and wrote to her.All the same tricks as before, but this time I did not offer her a relationship, and we communicate as friends.But, I must say, the communication is very close, the feeling is that I know this person from childhood and he is like my own. ( And in fact I know 3 months,where a month later we already communicated very closely)
And I also did “experiments” on how communication would develop if I did not use all these questions, but communicated as I communicate.And communication became boring, insipid.The girls are still my friends, but that doesn't make any sense.They just sit there and that's it.Until the next holiday/birthday.You might think “but you don't write to them yourself!” “you blunted them yourself”, etc., etc., no. I made the environment as friendly as possible.But I didn't ask any questions that might somehow bring us closer together (the principle of those questions).After 5-6 months, everything ended, because the person there has his own life, I have my own.And during these 5-6 months, there was no bright desire to meet and somehow get closer.