Not physically – morally, spiritually. Humans are very weak creatures with excessive values that they were given: God, fate, parents or aliens. Everyone has their own idea of the world. And everyone has their own definition of infidelity – a change of field of view, rest, mistake, instincts.. The point is simply that we can't separate the physical from the spiritual. They are not able to love purely, sincerely and above. We are worms in the earth of our mortal life and do not understand that we need to grow. Grow and be taller. Every human being doesn't deserve cruelty and pain from you. Just like you.�
Do not change yourself and leave if you were hurt.
Because love is gone. Social status is not easy to change, not many people want to bother with a divorce, especially if they have children and property together. There is a habit, an attachment, but no physical attraction. And sometimes you really hate it already, just tired of it. It stinks of beer and onions, and it scratches my belly. And there are so many beautiful boys around, to whom only a finger beckon and there will be everything and passion and romance and no beer and onions. And talking won't help, in general, these women's conversations are bullshit. Psychologists – bull shit. Or divorce and or like this, to be quiet.
Because infidelity is given too much importance in the modern world: infidelity is elevated to the rank of the greatest and most terrible betrayal, although this is not the case. In general, the family life of couples is decorated with a huge list of moral norms with a tendency to sanctions: this is not allowed, and that is not allowed, and that because it is bad, because it offends the partner, and so on. However, the fewer prohibitive attitudes and the more freedom and honesty there is, the stronger the bond.�
And also because people can not overcome the feeling of ownership and recognize the fact that a person is a living being, and does not belong to anyone but himself.�
Everyone knows that relationships go through certain stages. Everyone knows that passion doesn't last forever, that the proverbial sexual question is equal to tasting the same dish over the years. First you eat with delight, then with pleasure, then with satiety. Absolutely simple example: you love chocolate, but if you eat it every day, then eventually your passion for it will cool down and you will remain indifferent. That's why people cheat. Simply because over time, passionate love relationships are replaced by partnership, affection, commitment, friendship, gratitude, family life, and so on. It is very rare that a person remains an inexhaustible source of surprise, spontaneity and novelty for you all your life.�
Therefore, the question should not be “why do people cheat”, but “why is infidelity assigned such a huge role in relationships”.
It's like a favorite song.When you hear it for the first time, you are bursting with pleasure and admiration.It seems that there is nothing better than this song.You often turn it on and get high.Time passes.From constant listening, those initial emotions are no longer there.I realize that the song is not so cool and I want something new.Some random song you hear catches you and moves to your playlist.Now you only listen to her.
It happens that someone listens to their favorite song all their life,but only a few are so patient.Someone is a music lover and has a lot of favorite songs, someone does not listen to music at all)
Because people are either afraid and lazy to talk and solve problems in relationships. It's much easier to go sideways and sweat…before they sit down and discuss why their relationship or marriage is falling apart. Why can't you hear each other anymore and don't want to listen! Why you don't excite or attract each other anymore. And instead of either working out the relationship or breaking up honestly, a quiet and sorry nasty run to the side begins!
Because people want to do it. And why you want to is another question…� The simple answer is, well, I'm sorry. Each case of infidelity, if you want a more complete description of the cause of infidelity, should be analyzed separately.
Because they are very weak.
Not physically – morally, spiritually. Humans are very weak creatures with excessive values that they were given: God, fate, parents or aliens. Everyone has their own idea of the world. And everyone has their own definition of infidelity – a change of field of view, rest, mistake, instincts.. The point is simply that we can't separate the physical from the spiritual. They are not able to love purely, sincerely and above. We are worms in the earth of our mortal life and do not understand that we need to grow. Grow and be taller. Every human being doesn't deserve cruelty and pain from you. Just like you.�
Do not change yourself and leave if you were hurt.
Because love is gone. Social status is not easy to change, not many people want to bother with a divorce, especially if they have children and property together. There is a habit, an attachment, but no physical attraction. And sometimes you really hate it already, just tired of it. It stinks of beer and onions, and it scratches my belly. And there are so many beautiful boys around, to whom only a finger beckon and there will be everything and passion and romance and no beer and onions. And talking won't help, in general, these women's conversations are bullshit. Psychologists – bull shit. Or divorce and or like this, to be quiet.
Because infidelity is given too much importance in the modern world: infidelity is elevated to the rank of the greatest and most terrible betrayal, although this is not the case. In general, the family life of couples is decorated with a huge list of moral norms with a tendency to sanctions: this is not allowed, and that is not allowed, and that because it is bad, because it offends the partner, and so on. However, the fewer prohibitive attitudes and the more freedom and honesty there is, the stronger the bond.�
And also because people can not overcome the feeling of ownership and recognize the fact that a person is a living being, and does not belong to anyone but himself.�
Everyone knows that relationships go through certain stages. Everyone knows that passion doesn't last forever, that the proverbial sexual question is equal to tasting the same dish over the years. First you eat with delight, then with pleasure, then with satiety. Absolutely simple example: you love chocolate, but if you eat it every day, then eventually your passion for it will cool down and you will remain indifferent.
That's why people cheat. Simply because over time, passionate love relationships are replaced by partnership, affection, commitment, friendship, gratitude, family life, and so on. It is very rare that a person remains an inexhaustible source of surprise, spontaneity and novelty for you all your life.�
Therefore, the question should not be “why do people cheat”, but “why is infidelity assigned such a huge role in relationships”.
It's like a favorite song.When you hear it for the first time, you are bursting with pleasure and admiration.It seems that there is nothing better than this song.You often turn it on and get high.Time passes.From constant listening, those initial emotions are no longer there.I realize that the song is not so cool and I want something new.Some random song you hear catches you and moves to your playlist.Now you only listen to her.
It happens that someone listens to their favorite song all their life,but only a few are so patient.Someone is a music lover and has a lot of favorite songs, someone does not listen to music at all)
In general, we are different.
Because people are either afraid and lazy to talk and solve problems in relationships. It's much easier to go sideways and sweat…before they sit down and discuss why their relationship or marriage is falling apart. Why can't you hear each other anymore and don't want to listen! Why you don't excite or attract each other anymore. And instead of either working out the relationship or breaking up honestly, a quiet and sorry nasty run to the side begins!
Because people want to do it. And why you want to is another question…�
The simple answer is, well, I'm sorry. Each case of infidelity, if you want a more complete description of the cause of infidelity, should be analyzed separately.