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Such a rude style of communication in some people is simply an uncultured habit, which the rude person himself simply does not notice “as a problem of his behavior.”
So many people have all sorts of bad unintentional habits and behaviors.
This is a conflict between two Internet audiences.
The first one, which is more old, is grown up in the tradition: “This is the Internet. They can send the fuck out here.” That is, this is a place where you can swear, you can insult, there is nothing terrible about it. Don't be surprised. A kind of comfort zone – in other areas of life, people are forced to keep their mouths shut for fear of sanctions, or for fear of losing their dignity, and on the Internet you can safely start an argument, then fuck each other's moms, then make up again and go away forever in complete anonymity and reputation preservation. You can comment on some events, some people in the way you want, in the way you think. Including insulting. And get an equally offensive response.
From the words it seems that it's all scary, but in fact it's not. A person can log out of the Internet at any time, get out of a dispute, ban people, do not interfere, do not climb, choose a social circle, and so on. If they don't like this style of communication. The problem is that people who are offended by insults can't do this:) They are so drawn to climb again, to prove something again, to get burned and suffer again. Toxic users are to blame for this, of course.
And the second part of the audience, which sees the Internet as a continuation of the existing society. In society, they have created their own comfort zone, their own people, their own style of communication, their own locations, their own cocoa and cookies. They believe that all this should continue in the network. And they run into exposed wires. Because you can't just come with a ready-made comfort zone on the Internet – you need to create it yourself and re-create it. Define your online social circle, interest groups, and so on.
I will put forward my own version – impunity!
Why is politeness and etiquette so important in the first place? Man is a very aggressive and conflict-prone creature. When two armed people (or two countries) do not get along over something, even a small thing, it is fraught with the death of one side, or both at once. Therefore, we need rules – how to behave, how not to inflame the situation, how to make sure that there are no misunderstandings, how to get out of sensitive situations. The higher the price of an error, the finer the etiquette. It is not without reason that these areas were most developed in ancient times – among feudal lords, today in the diplomatic environment. Also, very much their own etiquette is developed in places that are not so remote.
But there is less politeness among tram passengers.
In the family, even less.
If a troll on the Internet knew that in response to his action there would necessarily be opposition – for example, a punch from the monitor, a network shutdown, a fine, a computer breakdown-then he would certainly refrain from excessively harsh and unbalanced statements.
Ill-mannered people who are rude, swear, and insult strangers on the Internet for no reason are terribly infuriating. Of course, these are poorly educated, limited, but not necessarily poorly educated people. Often such a mask hides insecure, hysterical and just plain outright schizophrenics. In short, slag.�
At first, I was upset and offended. Then she responded with rudeness. But the most effective way out is simply not to respond to such assholes, not to react. And immediately block it, otherwise some people personally start writing nasty things ).
I can't answer this question directly because I haven't heard any insults addressed to myself, in truth, I haven't seen any insults addressed to other people either. I wrote about myself a little earlier-I did not consider it an insult to ask about the health status of the character who was in the spotlight, but some “person with authority” considered it a violation of the site's rules and “banned” my answer to that person.
I can't answer this question directly because I haven't heard any insults addressed to myself, in truth, I haven't seen any insults addressed to other people either. I wrote about myself a little earlier-I did not consider it an insult to ask about the health status of the character who was in the spotlight, but some “person with authority” considered it a violation of the site's rules and “banned” my answer to that person.
Friends, not everything here is black and white -then you are used to thinking that one is a cad, and the other is an aristocrat. In fact-a lot of semitones, shades… Not long ago, I commented on another nonsense here, but as an “intelligent” person, I did not express to the author everything I think about his mental abilities, but tactfully (as it seems to me) expressed concern about his health… And what do you think? After a short time, the site administration, without “sorry” blocked my response to that “pepper”. For what, about what, why, why? Not a word, not half a word… For being rude, for insulting…? What else did I have there besides a hidden doubt about the mental abilities of my counterpart? Is that also an insult? What, you can't even open your mouth here? Guilty? Judge strictly, up to and including deleting your account… I won't take it as an insult…
Exactly the same thing that encourages some people to insult others and not on the Internet: their own unresolved psychological problems ,gaps in education, rudeness, lack of communication culture, short-term or constant stress, etc. It's just that in real life you can get paid for it, but here it's like – ” I'm in the house, I hid.” Confidence in impunity.
a combination of two factors: (1) a low level of culture forms an appropriate attitude towards people in general; (2) anonymity on the Web creates a sense of permissiveness and opens up abysses of lack of culture. Plus, probably somewhere there is a dopamine boost hidden. But not a fact, just a hypothesis.